Thursday, October 24, 2013

"IF YOU LEAVE A MESSAGE I'LL MAKE SURE THAT HE GETS BACK TO YOU...."

By Carlos Pinho

How many times have you been at the receiving end of this old chestnut, trotted out by so many 'gatekeepers'?

Call me a cynic if you will but I don't believe it. Not a word of it.

It’s the simple things like the message you left a few days ago. An unanswered email. The polite message you left on the voicemail. The follow-up to that query you had with the bank. The quote you’re expecting from the mechanic. The rates query with the Council. All entreaties met with ‘laissez faire’, contempt for courtesy and stony silence.

It’s just bad manners and it’s everywhere. Supermarket checkout clerks. Council officials. Government bureaucrats. Service providers. Banks. Friends. Family. 

How long is one is expected to wait before the limits of politeness, grace and good manners have been stretched?

The only weapons you have in your arsenal are to pester them, bug them, make a nuisance of yourself, insist, call back, send emails, text messages and refuse to give up. Of course one should always do it politely, with grace, and always a show of good manners.

Failing to do this will simply make you another statistic in a miasma of incompetence, bad service, lack of good manners and common courtesy from others.

I for one will not stand for it.

I'm off to make a nuisance of myself.

Copyright © Carlos Pinho 2013



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